Tori Kontor

I am an LGBTQIA+, Polyamorous/Consensual Non-Monogamy, kink-affirming therapist who enjoys working with folks of all identities and relationship types. In my therapy room, you'll find a supportive, open-minded, sex-positive space where nothing is off-limits. As a relational therapist, I understand that everything in your life is interconnected. We can't address desire exploration or sexual dysfunction in isolation—we need to look at the whole picture of who you are and how you relate. Our work together, guided by Internal Family Systems, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and body-centered approaches, will help you deepen the connection you have with yourself and others. We'll explore what's behind the patterns that aren't serving you, and build new ways of showing up that feel genuinely authentic to who you're becoming. My approach also honors the unique strengths you already possess. We'll use those strengths as the foundation for lasting change, tailoring our work specifically to your needs and your story. There's no one right way to love, desire, or connect. Let's discover what's right for you!